Thursday, 21 March 2013

5 Things That Would Get A Woman's Attention


Women, like men, are also visually stimulated creatures. The difference is this, while a man is attracted to what he sees (that is, outer beauty which includes a woman's curvy back side or voluptuous chest region), a woman needs her senses and mind stimulated enough before you can have her full attention.
 Are you wondering how this can be done? Well, settle down while I walk you through the top 5 ways to getting a woman's attention.
 5.A Good Dress Sense and Look:
A man that is well dressed would definitely get any woman's attention. Donning on a three-piece suit that is either Black or Grey, paired with lovely leather shoes and a tie to add a splash of colour would do most of the talking for you. Don't forget that good male grooming should not be left out. Clean shaven face, minty smelling breathe and nicely cropped hair can also do the trick.
 4.A Confident Gentleman:
It's one thing to be confident; it's another to be a confident gentleman. Confused? Don't be. A man with great confidence needs to balance it out with good manners and vocal eloquence. Being rude or egoistic would either get you slapped across the face or have wine dripping down your forehead. In other words, don't be a wimp around a woman, and don't be a jerk either. Be polite, yet firm. Women like a man who controls the air around him, but isn't too arrogant.
 3.A Great Sense of Humor:
So, your friends always say you act funny and it makes them laugh, right? Cool! Here is where a woman would defer. Acting funny (also known as being just plain silly to a woman) is not the same thing as having a sense of humour. This is a very major point if you want to get a woman's attention. Being slightly sarcastic without being insulting or rude is a way to start. Think up a funny pick up line you must have heard before and give it your own twist. For example, "If I said, 'Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?' That would be so cliche because we both know you floated down to earth!" Or something less cheesy! You would be surprised at how she would grant you undivided attention (until, maybe, you start to bore her! So watch it!).
 2.Pleasant Nasal Stimulation:
Ok, in simple English, this means smelling great. Any man who walks into a room, or by a woman he wishes to win her attention, and smells clean with just the right amount of cologne on, would definitely get a look or two. There are so many male deodorants and perfumes, not all expensive that can take care of sweaty smells. Do invest in them. I must warn though, please do not drown yourself in so much cologne that chokes so much and causes the woman you are trying to get her attention to pass out! Moderation is key. Oh! And please shower first. No one likes the smell of perfume-coated sweat!
 1.A Great Smile:
I saved this for my number one because it is a major ingredient to getting a woman's attention. Yes, some women love a great dentition, but let's face it, not every one is blessed with such. That being said, it does not mean you can't maintain a healthy gum and teeth. Not only that, learn to smile always! Majority of the women I spoke with said a man with a great smile would definitely catch their attention. Not a goofy smile or a stone-cold expression! A real smile. Practice in front of a mirror if you are not sure how and what a great smile looks like. Or watch adverts with smiling men in them and emulate that. When you put the previous four attributes together, you would see that your smile would be the icing on the cake (or in this case, the ice breaker and conversation starter.)


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